Human beings cant mate monogamously. Mating monogamously is now the exception rather than the rule. At least thats what I have seen and heard. That is the only reason which could offer an explanation for the alarmingly high number of people who cheat on their spouses. Lets face the truth. The reason that our species has survived upto 200,000 years is that we are really good at one thing- fucking. The Strong (Subconscious) desire to procreate leads us to be attracted to newer, better people.
Looking at it from a purely biological and secular point of view, having multiple sexual partners becomes a rational, justified choice. No guilt trips. No fear of invoking the displeasure of God.
But why is that , at the end of the day,when Jane stands near her bathroom window, having a cigarette in the darkness of the night, staring at the sky and the moon, the feeling of guilt creeps up all over her. She knows that she is not hurting anyone. She knows that its all mutual and consensual. Is it the status quo and their flawed ethics that makes her feel like this? Are the ethics flawed in reality or is it some bullshit that janes feeds herself to keep it together. Its like having a delicious high calorie meal. It feels great as you are doing it but the regret comes later on. I know what I am doing and exactly why I am doing it. Then why the fucking guilt trip.
I am a product of society's conditioning. I blame the people. *sighs*
Looking at it from a purely biological and secular point of view, having multiple sexual partners becomes a rational, justified choice. No guilt trips. No fear of invoking the displeasure of God.
But why is that , at the end of the day,when Jane stands near her bathroom window, having a cigarette in the darkness of the night, staring at the sky and the moon, the feeling of guilt creeps up all over her. She knows that she is not hurting anyone. She knows that its all mutual and consensual. Is it the status quo and their flawed ethics that makes her feel like this? Are the ethics flawed in reality or is it some bullshit that janes feeds herself to keep it together. Its like having a delicious high calorie meal. It feels great as you are doing it but the regret comes later on. I know what I am doing and exactly why I am doing it. Then why the fucking guilt trip.
I am a product of society's conditioning. I blame the people. *sighs*
Do whatever you want as long as you're not hurting anybody should be the law everywhere.
ReplyDeleteNice re-design on this blog btw. It's very "The Ring."
Yes it was about time that my blog got a creepy makeover
ReplyDeleteI think they can. I meet them sometimes. They are kind of creepy though, those lifers.
ReplyDeleteThe people I've noticed who stick together for the 20+ years thing mostly were people who hooked up with one of their first loves, like before or around 20 years old.
They are definitely the exception though.
Those crazy scientists tell us that a woman will choose a completely different type of dude depending on whether or not they are menstruating.
ReplyDeleteWhat does that say. I don't know. Completely different types of guys.
Thats so cool. hmm. women do get really needy during those special days.Every other guy seems like a good option when you're on ur period.
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